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Has Your Loving Relationship Lost Its Heat? A Feng Shui Master's Guide to Rekindling the Flame

Been together for a while? Love life buried under piles and piles of "reality": kids, work, schedules and more schedules? Don't see any way out?

You're not alone. It's the common plight of the modern couple. I see it all the time with my clients. It's a scary place to be. That "loving feeling" feels gone, gone, gone and you're afraid you'll never get it back.

Don't give up. You don't have to settle for a dismal desert of love if you're willing to make time for Play Time the Feng Shui Way.

First, are you ready to PLAY? Ask yourself the following questions:

Past: Was there a time when you couldn't keep your hands off each other?

Lust: Do you both really, really want that old passion feeling back?

Action: Are you both ready to make changes to get it back?

Yes:  Are your answers Yes, Yes, and Hell, Yes? Then, YES, you can have it back!

So you do want to PLAY! Now get ready to do the TIME.

Take stock:

• Stand in your bedroom door and look in.  The far right corner is your love area. What's there?
• What pictures do you have on the walls and dressers?

Initiate change

• Make sure the love area is uncluttered. Get rid of any "stuff."
• If the bathroom is in that corner keep the door closed.
• Add items of love: pairs of love birds, pink roses, mauve sheets.
• Remove any  pictures that aren't happy ones of you and yours. Pics of the kids, pets, or "grands" go in any other room – the bedroom is for love couples only!

Make the time

Commit to weekly "love time." Just the two of you. Always include three elements: food, activity and contact. (And no cheating: the activity and the contact are two separate things.) Try a picnic with a walk holding hands or a movie with dinner and a good night kiss. Of course, if the mood is right, you don't have to stop there.

Enjoy the process:

The most important step. Smiles and laughter, giggles and groans are the real aphrodisiacs.

Loving isn't about being the world's greatest lovers; loving is about being truly connected; lovemaking is the glue that helps keep always lovers together. And the loving never has to stop if you're will to take some Feng Shui Play Time.

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What is the strumming pattern to Yoshimi Battles the pink robots?

Hi I'm new to guitar and while I can play the chords with out problem, I'm having trouble strumming this flaming lips song. Can anyone help?

I can't really help you out with this song, but it is probably my favorite album by The Flaming Lips, so I did manage to track this web page down that might help you out...

http://www.fretplay.com/tabs/f/flaming_lips/yoshimi_battles_the_pink_robots_extended-tab.shtml

Hopefully it works for ya!

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